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I Have A Condition That Makes Sex Painful -
Published: 3 months ago By: BuzzFeedVideo

By: BuzzFeedVideoPublished: 3 months ago

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The condition VVS is a type of vulvodynia, which can cause incredibly painful sex. Surprisingly, the condition may affect up to 15% of women.

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Corey Flaspoehler

ThatOneIndianKid IzHere
She has so many conditions. That is 😭 sad
Mary-Elisabeth Moore
God bless her heart.
'TheDisguise' 2 days ago
"And the Christmas tree's like oh my God!"
Mubariz saeed
'Mubariz saeed' 3 days ago
'tatizarias' 4 days ago
we all need a Corey in our lives.
Chaos Marion
'Chaos Marion' 4 days ago
Becky is so strong and she never gives up!
power wolf
'power wolf' 4 days ago
😐How did I get here😐
Dania Hassan
'Dania Hassan' 5 days ago
awww this is so sad I just want to hug her so badly
Sandwich Man
'Sandwich Man' 6 days ago
Lol and this botch is bald too tragic
Tanisha Lenae
'Tanisha Lenae' 1 week ago
Mimi the pug
'Mimi the pug' 1 week ago
I have this too, its awful 😢
Jaime Glover
'Jaime Glover' 1 week ago
Did they get back together
'chess' 1 week ago
She slays either way tbfh
Cara matimong
'Cara matimong' 1 week ago
Brave lady 😊❤❤❤🦋
Ahlam Ibrahim
'Ahlam Ibrahim' 2 weeks ago
Cory is a gem
Lauren Newman
'Lauren Newman' 2 weeks ago
Becky is an incredible woman. You must have hard days, but you show us how to handle struggle with humor and grace. Love you, lady!
lucy He
'lucy He' 2 weeks ago
God pls help this girl out, she didn't deserve this, alopecia and this? I pray to u to help her pls.
ashly roussel
'ashly roussel' 2 weeks ago
Becky leme smash
No Ron I have vvs
'n2ziastka' 2 weeks ago
oh, she's a fighter! Go girl!
'Rose' 2 weeks ago
this girl kind of reminds me of nicola sturgeon. must be her hair.
phanic ! at the 5sos twenty øne crybabies
becky's so strong wow i love her
'DAT BOI!!!!' 2 weeks ago
That guy has a problem if he broke up with her because he couldn't have sex with her...But at least he apologized
Monkey D.Luffy
'Monkey D.Luffy' 2 weeks ago
she must be inbred
'246apple810' 2 weeks ago
3:37 is just the cutest thing ever
'OMGitsgalaxygirl' 2 weeks ago
Give this girl a break she already has alopecia
Oreo s
'Oreo s' 3 weeks ago
Did the break up?
'ReneH89' 3 weeks ago
Becky! We have identical health struggles (alopecia + vvs)--- Girl, we need to talk- have Gustave (at Buzzfeed) connect us!
Daisy Quake
'Daisy Quake' 3 weeks ago
So she has ADHD, Dyslexia, Alopecia and Vulvodyna. God damn. Give her a break.
Greatest Ever
'Greatest Ever' 3 weeks ago
Okay but what is up with her hair
'Mnxe' 3 weeks ago
I love their relationship so much. ❤
Jerlin Sneha
'Jerlin Sneha' 4 weeks ago
omg ! the guy is a gem !!!
BigJuicy Pickle
'BigJuicy Pickle' 4 weeks ago
Easy to cure

Don't have sex😑
Nia Mcqueen
'Nia Mcqueen' 1 month ago
At least she is not hiding it.
Shaynials Simson
'Shaynials Simson' 1 month ago
Why do people act like sex is what is supposed to hold a relationship together or that's what the relationship should be about?
'kittycatnya~' 1 month ago
If you're underage of having sex, how do you know is you have VVS?
Debonay Joseph
'Debonay Joseph' 1 month ago
Awww the love between these two is beautiful
gamila rizk
'gamila rizk' 1 month ago
why would someone brake another's heart just becuz she has a condition and she doesnt get to have sex with her that's a horrible person and even after you found this vibrator thing whatever is that the only reason he came back to you? if was this poor woman i would never get back with him just sayin'
victoria hale
'victoria hale' 1 month ago
There is to much wrong with her. Her hair issues now her vagina is acting up. Good lord
Prince Blake
'Prince Blake' 1 month ago
I'm not really sold on that relationship. I mean I hope the chic gets better with proper medical treatment and support, but for the guy, It's not like she developed cancer after 20 years of a stable loving marriage. Sex is a big deal in relationships. Just as big as trust, love and honesty

 I think he should have cut his loses and found a woman whom he could share the full spectrum of intimacy with. And he's a young man too. Not a priest.
'Andrea' 2 months ago
I have the same condition as you, and it took me years to feel comfortable with it--let alone how long it took me to explain the condition to my partners. Luckily, I'm now with someone who loves me and understands that we have to make changes to physical intimacy and the ways we think about sex. I also struggled with the "broken" feeling. The person I was involved with when I was diagnosed at around 18-19, was very much in the strain of "if we ignore it, it will go away". That didn't work. And I realized that if he wasn't going to help me and support me, that he wasn't a good person to be with. (There were also other factors going on at the same time.) Anyway, thank you so much for sharing your story, for talking about it, and for making one less person feel alone in their diagnosis. You're awesome!
Ametaf Johora
'Ametaf Johora' 2 months ago
i just want to help becky
Sidra Tauqeer
'Sidra Tauqeer' 2 months ago
o my god I feel the same pain during intercourse but it happened after my c-section, so I wasn't really serious about it
I read a few articles saying this usually happens after c-section
but then now it's been a year nd m still not comfortable having sex
I have an appointment with my doctor because I really really feel the same pain she explained in the video
I hope everything goes well for u dear, and for me too
m scared.....
Deb bie
'Deb bie' 2 months ago
wow!! I think I've just diagnosed what I had suffered with for 7 years that no Dr could. Just read about it and same symptoms. Now, it's gone. weird thing is, I went on a 90 day juice fast and the pain and swelling lessened
'LoverWitch' 2 months ago
OMG. This is incredible. Buzzfeed, thank you so much for posting this. I have vaginismus and vulvodynia. My pelvic muscles are in a constant spasm. My vagina is constantly aching, hurting or like you said it feels like I'm being penetrated with a serrated knife. The unusual part is that most women only feel it when it's touched, but mine comes on its own and hits me like a ton of bricks. I use aromatherapy, meditation, prayer, masturbation to ease the pain. If I masturbate every few days I can keep the pain at bay. I feel like a defective woman. What man wants a woman he can't have sex with? I dream of romance, but how am I supposed to think about being in a relationship when I can't even satisfy him and give him what he needs? My heart goes out to you. You have wonderful friends to be so supportive! And discovering this curse while being in a relationship? Ouch. I am so glad to hear you're making it work out. It's so inspiring.
Alexis Sims
'Alexis Sims' 2 months ago
That's great that your friends supported you and tried really hard to get you feeling better and just being your friends.
Emily hancock
'Emily hancock' 2 months ago
thank you for making a video about this - I had no idea it was so prevalent and so excruciating :(
Kiki Thor
'Kiki Thor' 2 months ago
I wish they would stop letting this girl make videos
Farah Abdoh
'Farah Abdoh' 2 months ago
omg how does this girl have all that diseases
Kay Howell
'Kay Howell' 2 months ago
See, if anything else, Becky reminds us that we can be stronger.
llama poop
'llama poop' 2 months ago
u also have anorexia and ur ugky
She has a very nice husband! Some men would divorce as soon as a sexual problem was mentioned.
Gekio F
'Gekio F' 2 months ago
Your boyfriend seems like a jerk.
'bonesrbeautyful' 2 months ago
I would love to know what this numbing product she uses is ?
Jessica Nexo
'Jessica Nexo' 2 months ago
She is amazing and strong and all of that But I really just want to say that she should turn down a bit for the Mascara Jesus...
Tanya bey
'Tanya bey' 2 months ago
shes so cute 😄
Kit Savastani
'Kit Savastani' 2 months ago
I like how the guy dumps her because he can't have sex. If it means that much to him than he doesn't deserve her.
'Christina' 2 months ago
I know this is unrelated to the video but she looks like Princess Diana with that hair
Sandra Ponycheese
'Sandra Ponycheese' 2 months ago
becky can just not catch a break.
Morgan Jones
'Morgan Jones' 2 months ago
I don't have alopecia, but I do have moderate hair loss and VVS. My relationship and outlook on life is not so good. Would love to sit down and chat with this girl.
nashy bearh
'nashy bearh' 2 months ago
i love her so much. my god.
Brenno Rubegni
'Brenno Rubegni' 2 months ago
just take her from the back
Blaze P
'Blaze P' 2 months ago
I'm not a doctor, but it does make sense. The pain and pleasure nerve centers of the brain are supposed to be close - which explains why some people get off on things like BDSM. Her story is a bittersweet one: she's lucky to have an understanding BF like Corey.

Could you imagine having a BF/GF that has sex for/gets off on the sole purpose of causing you pain?? She is so strong, and this is a guy said this!
Rocky Pop 101
'Rocky Pop 101' 2 months ago
ahhhh im crying cause im scared Ahhhhhhhhh omg kill meee plslslslsll
tacowomenlover cx
'tacowomenlover cx' 2 months ago
Corey && Becky are literally goals i'm so happy for her she's literally blessed even if she goes through a lot of things I am so happy for her i hope you all find this . bless you all
owlsquish 1601
'owlsquish 1601' 2 months ago
i thought there still together
'Potteto' 2 months ago
i need a man like corey.
'Hazz' 2 months ago
He shouldn't have broken up with you , like if he really loves you then he wouldn't leave you cause you can't have sex 😑
Deplorable Geo
'Deplorable Geo' 2 months ago
Lol sucks for you
Layla aka editing queen Dragneel
VVS, do you have something pink sticking out of your vagina?
'Pokefnafcraft' 2 months ago
And the Christmas tree is like "OH MY GOD!!!" I could not stop laughing
Abnormal is pretty
'Abnormal is pretty' 2 months ago
This was such a humbling video. It made me so emotional I cried. I don't even have this! But I am dealing with another issue and I'm just like wow, if they can get through that together, my little problem seems so minuscule. What a fantastic story 💖 I hope they get married! Then it will be even more intimate and special 💖
Abnormal is pretty
'Abnormal is pretty' 2 months ago
This was such a humbling video. It made me so emotional I cried. I don't even have this! But I am dealing with another issue and I'm just like wow, if they can get through that together, my little problem seems so minuscule. What a fantastic story 💖 I hope they get married! Then it will be even more intimate and special 💖
Alisson Tafur
'Alisson Tafur' 2 months ago
I feel really bad for her she has so much health conditions, but she's still smiles thought it all she's so strong funny and very sweet. Wish you the best ❤️❤️❤️
Bitesize Baconator
'Bitesize Baconator' 2 months ago
I have been having painful sex since I started to have it in my late teen years. It DOES feel like a piece of glass up there, but the best explanation I can give is, it feels like a knife stabbing into my stomach and the pain is still here at least half an hour after sex. I have gone to doctors but they just check for stds or STI's(they always think that is the cause) but when nothing comes up than they don't know what to do, except tell me to use more lube or take it more easy during sex. Which I have taken that advice so not sure what to do.
Kaylia Marie Solares
'Kaylia Marie Solares' 2 months ago
Omg I feel bad for women with this syndrome
sex shouldn't be excruciating painful
Sakina Fletcher
'Sakina Fletcher' 2 months ago
'snowy-lobi' 2 months ago
i love these two
Ashtin Stano
'Ashtin Stano' 2 months ago
My new biggest fear of developing. Jesus.
dat boi
'dat boi' 2 months ago
she has a poopy face
Jordan Marie
'Jordan Marie' 2 months ago
you're relationship should not be characterized by intercourse so i'm glad that you guys got through it
Barbara Danley
'Barbara Danley' 2 months ago
That is exactly how love is supposed to work. Good for them.
Elizabeth Gonley
'Elizabeth Gonley' 2 months ago
how did watching videos about pitbull puppys get to this.... and isnt i suppose 2 b panefull ... but ... liket i would know.... sad sad vergen questions
I'm terrified I might have this.
Tori ._.
'Tori ._.' 2 months ago
Oh my lord. God bless this girl...she's been thru enough ♡
Yellow Blanket
'Yellow Blanket' 2 months ago
Wait, so are they together or not? They said they broke up but people are saying they're an amazing couple?? I'm so confused???
Scarlett Richards
'Scarlett Richards' 2 months ago
You're not lacking in a relationship just bc you can't have sex. stop being so shallow.
'user21' 2 months ago
I know the struggle, especially when you feel like you are just waiting for it to go away. Somehow my boyfriend and I made it through that, and I've just finished a course of therapy that's helped me relearn intimacy. And actually, that better connection has made some of the pain go away too! ☺️ (I have vaginismus not vvs though) Keep on fighting babes, we won't let this define us 🌼
Amina Alamin
'Amina Alamin' 2 months ago
Im sad about what she's going through but I'm glad she has such great people in her life
Yakov Gal
'Yakov Gal' 2 months ago
Omg that's kinda weird gotta admit that's we'red as crap
Tyrena Cunningham
'Tyrena Cunningham' 2 months ago
shes so cute
Jessica Wilson
'Jessica Wilson' 2 months ago
Ellie Alexander
'Ellie Alexander' 2 months ago
Poor thing........
Im Not Jamie
'Im Not Jamie' 2 months ago
Damn it must be even more painful for these women to give birth, unless they do it cesarean.
Ainsley Grace
'Ainsley Grace' 2 months ago
are they back together?
Georgia Gray
'Georgia Gray' 2 months ago
I've had the same problem for quite some time now and after seeing this video, I feel like a whole weight has been lifted off me. Thank you so much for making this video.
'angelstouch92' 2 months ago
Omg I was literally talking about this pain today and that the people I have seen so far don't know what is causing it. I might mention this and see what they say.
Madhad Ali
'Madhad Ali' 2 months ago
relationship goals
georgia teamlogic
'georgia teamlogic' 2 months ago
that is horrible
I am sorry to any woman that can't have sex
I can't imagine that
'luvr381' 2 months ago
Does your mouth and anus also have VVS? Then you can still be useful.
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